Giving It Up For LoveSam Davidson has been noting the things your life, his life, and other’s lives , don’t need in his recent guest blogs and his book “
50 Things Your Life Doesn’t Need”. One thing that’s on my list is New Year’s resolutions. I never bought into this resolution idea for some reason. Everyone makes New Year’s resolutions, but they rarely seem to keep them. I think if there’s something out there you think you should “do”, then you don’t need to wait till New Year’s to resolve to do it. As Nike coined, “Just Do It”.

Earlier in the month, I saw Facebook posts about a particular date being slated as “Pay It Forward Day”. I feel the same way about this, paying it forward should be a way of life, not something you are prompted to do because someone told you this was the day to do it.
So maybe instead of a note to self on what you vow to do in 2011, consider the unique idea of discarding what you don’t need.
Here’s a few things on my “Do Not Need” list besides New Year’s resolutions:
1) Work that isn’t fulfilling
2) Useless email subscriptions I signed up for at some point
3) An artist studio that I don’t spend enough time in
4) Buying more bananas than I can eat before they go bad
5) A nice bicycle that I never ride, whose tires are now flat because it’s been sitting so long
And finally, hard to write this one,
nicotine. Yep, there it is. I said it. I wonder how many people reading this don’t even know I smoke. I’m a closet smoker. I’m embarrassed that I smoke. I’ve tried to give it up for good enough times already. I’ve had weeks or even months when I didn’t smoke. I ask myself, what does smoking “give” to me and I don’t have to tell you, there’s not a single thing on that particular list. And heck, I can’t afford to smoke anyway, in any way. Not only is it a useless “expense”, it's just not "who" I am anymore. But more importantly, it’s taking time away from the things I need to be doing, like generating kindness. And that is just no longer okay by me.
So, as the month, and year come to a close, I’m going to, for what I hope to be the final time, help myself out, and others, and finally give up this thing on my list. I’m going to remind myself every time I think of buying that next pack of cigs, I’m taking hours and days off my life that I could be giving to someone or a cause I love. I just can’t afford to do that anymore. There’s just too many
Habitat houses to build, too many sweet young mouths to feed at “Love & Lunch” at
The Oasis Center, too many paintings waiting to be done, and too many people I need to tell that I love them.
I have one life. I am doing something.